Sarebbe bello, con le persone a noi più care, cogliere l'occasione di ogni Natale per fare il punto sulla nostra vita:

Cosa mi ha insegnato la vita quest'anno?
Sono diventata più forte o più debole?
Vedo ancora i problemi con gli stessi occhi dello scorso anno? O forse alcuni sono diventati più leggeri e altri più pesanti?
C'è stato in particolare qualcosa che mi ha stra-volto (volto altrove) lo sguardo? E se c'è stato, ne ho avuto paura e l'ho messo sotto il cuscino, o ne ho fatto un motore che mi sta portando verso nuovi lidi?

Pensa che dono grande sarebbe se ragionassimo sulle nostre vite ad alta voce tutti insieme... Ogni esperienza diventerebbe ricchezza per gli altri.

Questo per me dovrebbe essere il Natale. Occasione di confronto con se stessi in primis, con gli altri poi, per consapevolizzare i risultati raggiunti e ripartire, rinascere, con obiettivi sempre più evoluti.

Buon Natale a tutti,
di cuore!

Bianca

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It would be nice if we take the opportunity of every Christmas, to take stock of our lives with the people we are close to:

What has life taught me this year?
Am I stronger or weaker?
Am I still seeing problems with the last year eyes? Or maybe are some of them lighter and some other heavier now?
Did anything overturned me (turned my gaze over)? And if it’s so, does it scared me and I hided it under the pillow, or I made it an engine that is now taking me to new shores?

Imagine what a great gift would be if we think about our lives out loud and all together ... Any experience would become a value for the others.

This should be Christmas for me. An opportunity for discussion with yourself first, then with the other, to empower the achievements and start again, reborn, with more and more advanced goals.

Merry Christmas to all,
With love!

Bianca

Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.
Steve Jobs

A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they'd be asked the "half empty or half full" question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: "How heavy is this glass of water?" Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz. She replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn't change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes." She continued, "The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything." It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don't carry them through the evening and into the night. Remember to put the glass down!

http://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/19bn9s/how_heavy_is_your_glass_of_water/